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Where no one knows me

When I arrived, the air smelled different—not better or worse, just unfamiliar. The first thing I noticed was the silence within the crowd—not absolute silence, but the absence of familiar voices, the feeling of being a ghost among the living. Everything here worked differently. The faces were unknown, the streets followed routes I didn’t understand, and the days passed without anyone saying my name. There was no story tying me to this place, no echo of my past within its walls. Work wasn’t any better. It was like a well-oiled machine where I was the piece that didn’t fit. They spoke to me without looking and gave instructions without explaining. Just the basics, just enough. A mechanical greeting, a curt direction, a glance that barely landed on me before shifting back to a screen, a phone, something more important. I wondered if my presence would ever be more than a shadow in the corner of their routines. The nights were the worst enemy. Loneliness became louder when the sun went dow...
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Far from home

I never imagined that sadness could weigh this much. The excitement I carried when I left home could crumble so quickly, leaving me empty-handed and with a shattered heart. When I arrived, I thought I would find opportunities waiting for me, that this new beginning would be the first step toward everything I had dreamed of. But what I saw was a broken place, as worn down as the hope I was still trying to hold on to. The days have been long, the nights endless. I roam, passing faces that don’t meet my eyes, and doors that close before I can even knock. Hunger is bearable, but loneliness is not. There’s a coldness that doesn’t come from the weather but from the certainty that no one here is waiting for me, that no one speaks my name with warmth, that no one asks how I am. I feel like a ship lost at sea, battered by a storm that never ends. I have tried to be strong, I swear. I have told myself, over and over again, that every effort is worth it, that luck will change, that I didn’t come ...

The echo of my lost home

When I close my eyes, the silence screams at me. It screams memories that I try to embrace but always slip through my fingers. There’s a warm light in that silence, a soft breeze, a scent I can’t describe but burns in my chest as if it were everything I’m missing. I miss my home. I miss my mom. I came here with hands full of dreams, my heart beating faster than I could count. But with each sunrise, those dreams began to transform. They lost their colors and shapes until they became shadows. I kept running after them, trying to remember why they were so important. There are days when my mind betrays me. It reflects what I left behind: a voice that soothes, a laugh that heals, a hug that stops time. But when I open my eyes, it all fades away. And I’m here, in this place I once thought would be mine, but now feels so foreign. The nights are the hardest. I feel like a boat in the middle of an endless ocean. I hear echoes of words that used to give me strength, but now only make me more awa...

Solitude amid the celebration

  The lights flickered insistently, casting fleeting shadows on the walls that felt more alive than the people around me. The colors danced in vibrant hues, yet they couldn’t warm the air. Everything in this scene was crafted to evoke joy, yet my chest felt like an empty drawer no one had bothered to fill. I’ve never felt as if I belonged here. Faces came and went, some with smiles that never reached their eyes, others with kind words wrapped in velvet but sharp as knives. I feel like a complete stranger surrounded by people I cannot trust. How many of those glances were genuine attempts to connect? How many were simply pretending because that’s what we’re supposed to do during these festive days? I tried distracting myself with the decorations on the table: the sparkle of glassware, the sweet aroma rising from the dishes, the candles flickering in rhythm with conversations I couldn’t understand or care to. But at its core, everything felt like a theater, and I was merely a spectat...

A Home I Carry Within: My First Christmas Away

  The lights twinkle in the distance, tiny sparks of color dancing to the rhythm of a song I can’t hear. I stand by the window, watching the cold fog up the glass, drawing patterns that vanish as quickly as they appear. I see my tired eyes in the reflection, but they’re not empty. This will be my first Christmas away from home. I hadn’t thought much about it until now, but the silence around me made it impossible to ignore. Before, everything was different. There was laughter, intertwined voices, the sound of wrapping paper torn open, and that unmistakable aroma announcing that everything was right, that I was exactly where I belonged. But this year, my home feels different. No voices are filling the spaces, no scents embracing me with memories. It’s just me, my half-unpacked suitcase, and a small tree I bought to feel something familiar. I left everything behind because something inside me screamed that I had to fly and that a world was waiting for me. And I don’t regret it. I’ve ...

The Beauty of adaptation

Stepping into a new work environment was like walking into an unfamiliar landscape. Everything around me felt different—the sounds, the pace, the tools I was expected to use. It wasn’t the kind of work I had imagined myself doing, and yet, there I was. The comfort of what I once knew seemed miles away, replaced by the challenge of the unknown. At first, it was overwhelming. My hands weren’t used to this kind of labor, my mind wasn’t accustomed to the routines and patterns I was learning. But with every passing day, something shifted. I began to understand the rhythm of the work, the flow of tasks that seemed so foreign at first. Slowly, I realized that I wasn’t just adapting to the job; I was becoming part of it. The simplicity of the tasks began to reveal a beauty I hadn’t expected. There was something satisfying about mastering each step, about contributing to a larger process. I found myself looking forward to the challenges, knowing that each new hurdle was an opportunity to learn ...

The Art of flowing with change

When I found myself immersed in this unfamiliar environment, I knew it wouldn't be easy. The shadows of uncertainty surrounded me, and with every step, I felt the weight of doubt. But there was something that kept me going: the conviction that, no matter what happened, I could adapt.  On the first day, everything was foreign to my senses. The shapes, sounds, and dynamics there seemed completely different from what I knew. I felt like a stranger in a new world, but I knew that giving up was not an option. So I allowed myself to make mistakes and learn at my own pace. It was then that I discovered something essential: it wasn't about being the best at that moment, but about embracing the process.  Over time, I learned to observe carefully and to listen attentively. It wasn't a matter of being the strongest, but of being flexible, of molding myself and flowing with what the environment offered me. Adapting didn't mean giving up who I was, but expanding it, enr...